After a divorce is finalized, many people focus on moving forward emotionally and financially. However, one of the most important post-divorce steps is often overlooked: updating estate planning and legal documents. Without these updates, an ex-spouse may still remain listed in roles that control financial, medical, or inheritance decisions. Why Updates Matter Even after […]
Category Archives: Divorce
The legal process by which a married couple formally ends their marriage, involving court orders on asset division, support obligations, and, if applicable, child custody arrangements.
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Jun
Jun
Divorce is often viewed as an emotional process, but it is also a financial one. One of the first questions many people ask is, “How much will this cost?” The answer depends largely on the path a couple takes to resolve. In Illinois, divorce can proceed through traditional litigation or through alternative methods such as […]
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May
May
“Equitable Distribution” Explained: Why a 50/50 Split Isn’t Guaranteed in Illinois One of the biggest misconceptions people have about divorce is the belief that everything automatically gets split equally between spouses. Many assume that divorce means a simple 50/50 division of all assets and debts. In Illinois, however, that is not how the law works. […]
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Apr
Apr
Not all divorces follow the same path. Some couples reach agreement early and move forward smoothly, while others face disputes that require court involvement. Understanding the difference can help you set expectations and make informed decisions. Uncontested Divorce An uncontested divorce occurs when both parties agree on all major issues, such as property division, parenting […]
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Dec
Dec
AI companions are increasingly influencing relationships, sometimes even contributing to divorce, by creating a new dependent relationship that is replacing real relationships. While AI can help with organizing thoughts or drafting materials, relying on it for emotional support, legal guidance, or major relationship decisions can create conflict, misinformation, and strain. Use AI carefully and always […]
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Oct
Oct
Divorce isn’t just a legal process; it is an emotional one. A sincere apology can bridge the gap between conflict and closure by acknowledging each spouse’s contributions, easing tension, and unlocking stalled resolutions. An apology can shift the tone from adversarial to understanding, helping both parties move forward with greater peace and emotional healing. Divorce […]
Collaborative Divorce, Divorce
The Respectful Divorce Podcast Features Illinois Attorney Patrick Markey
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Feb
Feb
Patrick Markey was recently a guest on The Respectful Divorce podcast highlighting Collaborative Divorce and Divorce With Respect Week®. Markey is a Chicago divorce attorney and president of Collaborative Divorce Illinois. “What I hear when I talk to someone about divorce is that they just don’t know how to get started,” said Markey. “Most people […]
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Dec
Dec
The divorce process can seem like it will never end and there are some divorces that can even stretch out for several years. Why does this happen? The answer lies in a mix of human factors, legal system dynamics, and the approach chosen to resolve disputes. The Human Factor: Divorce Moves at the Pace of […]
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Oct
Oct
Mediation is an increasingly popular alternative to the traditional divorce process that ends up in court. Resolving disputes outside of court offers several benefits. However, like any divorce process, Mediation has its strengths and weaknesses. Understanding both the pros and cons can help you decide if mediation is the right approach for your situation. Pros […]
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Jul
Jul
One of the most common fears people have about divorce is the potential harm it may cause to their children. While it is true that divorce is hard on children, staying in a toxic relationship can also have detrimental effects. So how can you protect your children during your divorce? Prioritize shielding your children from […]